This is the full text of the Youth Address, which was delivered at the 2010 Central Texas Conference.
Youth,
Students,
Young People,
Teenagers,
Adolescents,
Names that define people like me. Is that all the youth are, just a name? If youth are just a name, then this address can stop right now. But that is the problem, we can’t stop the address right now, youth are not just a name, we are vital members of the Church, the Kingdom of God. A fair amount of churches in our Annual Conference don’t have youth groups, and most of those that do separate the youth from the life of the church by distancing them to the rarely visited upstairs room, the basement, or in some places across the street, not even in the main church building. There are some churches in our Annual Conference that have thriving youth programs, and they should be congratulated! But today we are addressing the fact that every church in the Central Texas Conference can have a thriving youth program that is continuously growing as more and more youth become Disciples of Jesus Christ. But this will only happen if our local churches are in constant connection with each other and if youth ministries have the full support and resources of their local churches.
It is commonly said to us that youth are the future of the church. This fact is true; however, many people who believe that youth are the future of the church are oblivious to the fact that youth are a significant part of the church now! We are important to the life of the church. How can our local churches grow and reach out in our communities if youth are not integrated into the life of the church? Often youth will bring their friends, who may not be familiar with the church to youth group events. If there are leaders in the church paying attention to who is participating in youth events then connections can begin to be made and the congregation will grow. When a new youth becomes involved within your congregation there is potential for an entire family’s involvement.
The President of the Student Leadership Team is a member of the Committee on Inclusiveness by virtue of office. Several weeks ago I received an email from the Inclusiveness Committee regarding monitoring during Annual Conference, it was an enormous email, containing seven attachments. Did you know there are people sitting among you taking notes on who is speaking? They take notes during worship and our business sessions. They monitor the age and race of speakers and the inclusiveness of the language being used. As I thought about this email, I asked myself what it would look like if we were all monitors in our local churches. Would we see youth being active in worship, in missions, and in leadership within the church? If not, then why? Why aren’t they? Have they been asked? Is there a place for them?
I think there are many common misconceptions about youth that lead to their lack of involvement within the church. Some adults believe that youth want to be isolated (like in an Upstairs Room)and completely separated from the life of the church. This idea is absolutely false. Youth want to be involved; we want to get to know the other members of our congregations. We are grateful for our separate spaces, but sometimes they are too divisive! Some of you may also believe that all youth want to do is rebel and go crazy, this idea is also false. Youth are generally good people striving to walk the path with their eyes fixed on Jesus, just as all of you. They need role models to watch and opportunities to see you walking with God too!
As it is with each new generation, we, the youth, are a different generation, we speak and dress differently, but we are still Christians, members of the Kingdom of God, just like every other member of our church.
Every year the Student Leadership Team puts on Conference wide events for youth. The theme for our year has been, “Engaging in Ministry with the Poor,” this is one of the 4 focus areas of our denomination right now. The others are Developing Principle Christian Leaders, Creating New churches and energizing existing ones, and Eliminating Killer Diseases. At our Mid Winter, this year we focused one Mid Winter on local poverty and one on global poverty . We invited presenters from local and global ministry groups. We had amazing curriculum that was developed by youth and youth workers within our conference.
I attended both Mid Winters, but Saturday night worship at the Global Mid Winter was most significant to me. During the week before and while I was driving to Glen Rose, I kept thinking about the traditional Prayer of Confession that is usually said before Communion. I kept thinking how amazing it would be to do this prayer at one of our worship services at Mid Winter. The prayer says this…
Merciful God, we confess that we have not loved you with our whole heart. We have failed to be an obedient church. We have not done your will, we have broken your law, we have rebelled against your love, we have not loved our neighbors, and we have not heard the cry of the needy. Forgive us, we pray. Free us for joyful obedience, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
When I arrived at Glen Lake I was surprised to see that it was already planned for us to incorporate this prayer into Saturday evening worship. We were going to do it in a really cool way, we had five speakers who were reading a line of the prayer and then reading an illustration that went along with the line that they had just read.
I was asked to be one of the five readers and I was really excited about this. Saturday night comes and it was time for the prayer. The five of us got up and read our parts. The reading went well, but what happened after did not. As we were going back to our seats, one of the youth began to awkwardly applaud and this resulted in everyone applauding. This really upset me because I felt the point of the prayer was lost among the clapping – it felt as if the clapping was directed towards us who read the prayer as if we had put on a performance. To me, worship is not a performance, it is a time where we come together as Christians to refresh and show our many thanks to God. And this kid ruined that. After worship, I was still so bothered by the clapping that I had to take some time to blog about it. Blogging is like a web based journal and for me when I am really bothered by something, writing it out helps me calm down and think. So I wrote about it and I felt better, I was able to make it through the rest of the weekend.
A month later I was on Facebook and I came across one of my friend’s blogs who also wrote about the same worship service. In her blog she wrote about some confusion she had during worship. She said, “As I looked around the sanctuary I could see smiles and the presence of the Holy Spirit filling all those who were worshipping, except on the faces of those I was standing by, my fellow student leaders, they were upset.” She later went on to say that she could not understand how we got so focused and narrowed in on that one incident of obnoxious clapping.
As I read her post, I felt sick. I was so worried about the properness of worship that I had doubted the presence of God and I had forgotten why we were there. We were there to be filled with the Holy Spirit and to worship in any way we felt comfortable. And if clapping after the prayer of confession is your thing, then that’s ok.
I think sometimes the relationship between the youth and the adults of the church is just like our Mid Winter experience, a tradition or event that one group plans or does is completely misinterpreted by the other. And often we find it impossible to bridge the gap between generations. It is sometimes hard for youth to understand adults, or vice versa. We can learn a lot from each other if we open ourselves up to new experience the other generation has to share with us. Youth can offer growth in your faith just as you can challenge them in theirs.” What the Student Leadership Team has discovered, is that the two generations need each other, and we have come up with a couple of solutions to help them meet.
One solution is to have church wide Sunday School. Pick a time to invite ALL of the Sunday School classes in the church to meet and do a study together. Invite each of the Sunday School teachers from the different classes to take turns leading the sessions. Doing church wide Sunday School would be a unifying event and would allow many members of the congregation to engage in discussion with each other.
Another idea is to create prayer partners across the generations, pair a youth with an older member of the congregation. They pray with and for each other weekly and at least once a month plan something fun together. Creating relationships with youth and older members of the congregation allows mentoring, and spiritual development to take place for the youth. It helps youth to develop spiritually and allows adults to gain insight into the world of youth.
One thing that my church has done to make Youth more included in the church is having youth led worship. We have Youth Sunday every month that has 5 Sundays. The youth work together to pick out all the scripture and hymns. We lead music and one of us gives a message. Having this time to get an insight into the lives of worship leaders at our church makes us more connected to them and planning a worship service helps us to develop our own faith and share it with the church. The congregation gets to know each youth better by being able to see their gifts and talents in action as they lead different aspects of worship. It’s really an amazing thing to see some of the things our youth group has pulled together into an awesome worship experience for the whole congregation. Our Youth Sundays have evolved to be called “Everyone’s Favorite Sunday!” and we have really grown INTO the congregation and gotten to know the adults in our church on a new level.
Once we begin to interact with the youth and realize that youth have the ability to be active members of the church, we will support their ministries and we will empower them to be leaders within our church.
Every summer thousands of youth from across the conference engage in missions, many of them through CTCYM. A couple of years I go I went to Lafayette, Louisiana to build a wheelchair ramp for an elderly man. It wasn’t until we completed the ramp that we discovered Mr. Champagne hadn’t been outside of his house in five years. My work team was able to watch him go down the wheelchair ramp and be outside for the first time in five years. The LORD truly works in amazing ways through CTCYM.
Our generation is very missional, we love to help people in need and we love going on mission trips during the summer. There are many local churches in the conference that do participate in summer mission trips. You saw over 700 youth and adults that commit time each summer to do missions at the Comissioning on Sunday night. The Student Leadership Team thinks it would be phenomenal if all of our local churches participated in youth mission trips. It can happen through the support and encouragement of the adults and leaders within the church. The practice of going on a mission trip is the practice of Servant Leadership.
The Student Leadership Team exists to empower and encourage youth leadership across the connection. The only youth, Stefanie Schutz, on the General Church Connectional Table is a member of our Central Texas Conference Student Leadership Team. The President of the South Central Jurisdictional Youth Leadership Team, Allye Combs-Morgan is also a member of our Central Texas Conference Student Leadership Team. We know how to make youth servant leaders! However, these youth only come out of a small percentage of local churches that participate on Student Leadership Team at the Conference and District Levels. All of our District Student Leadership Teams encourage two youth from every local church to serve on them. We are asking you to go back to your local churches and seek out youth to serve as leaders in your churches. Many youth desire to serve as leaders within the local churches, but they are never asked or given the opportunity. Invite youth to help lead in worship regularly, and invite youth serve on your various committees and boards in your church. Have Youth co-Chairs on committees or shadow-chairs.
The Student Leadership Team is very grateful for the opportunities the Central Texas Conference provides for youth to serve beyond the local church. We are asking, as we move into this next year for another opportunity to become available. At the 2011 session of the Central Texas Annual Conference we will vote for General and Jurisdictional Conference Delegates. Historically the Central Texas Conference has not elected persons under the age of 35 to serve in this capacity. The Student Leadership Team will be offering several youth and young adult candidates for consideration to be elected as delegates. We ask that the conference lay members strongly consider voting for youth and young adults to represent the conference at the 2012 General and Jurisdictional Conferences.
When youth are empowered to be leaders within the church, their time of service allows them to grow spiritually and they are able to better discern how God is calling them to be leaders within the church throughout the rest of their lives. It is crucial now at this very moment to empower youth to be leaders. The average age of a United Methodist is late 50’s, and the amount of clergy under age 35 is less than 10%. We need youth to become active in our church more than ever! And we need the leadership of our adults more than ever! Both of our generations need to learn how to lead and how to follow!
Today we have laid the foundation for what we want youth ministry to look like in the Central Texas Conference from this point forward.
We desire inclusiveness and interaction with the generations ahead of us.
The Conference and District Student Leadership Teams are making it their goal to energize and equip the local churches for youth ministry.
Our ministry will be about empowering the local church to make Youth Disciples of Jesus Christ for the Transformation of the World!
But we cannot do it alone.